The fact is that no matter how all-round you are, many people see only part of you, a number of features that create a certain image of you in their heads. Due to the first impression, an accidental word, or many years of acquintance. Always. There is something crucial which defines you in a certain way as well as their attitude to you. Funny, unbeliebable but truthful. That's it. The point is to take an advantage of it... in a way it is a shield for real you. Let them stay confused.

But if you do care.... if it touches upon some important things or concerns somebody important for you. It's going to be difficult to reveal yourself in a proper way and border fun and just fooling around (just an example)... whatever from your real intentions and feelings especially if you life perception a little different, a bit more specific than acceptable and expectable there.